Question (3)

In nature, normally the candidate is chosen through „its natural perfume“. If the perfume is „compatible“ the person will feel attracted to the other. „You fall in love“. As humans, then come to the not only the biological, „irrational“ but other more „rational“ compatibility criteria too: social, moral, behaviour and so on. And at the end, if everything somehow works, you are a couple. „Easy as that“

it's not really love in this case, it's more so lust. To really love some one you'd have to get to know them, their personality and what not. In my opinion, this attraction is more so a crush or lust, not love. It's superficial in a sense, based purely off of appearance. Note, this is all my opinion, I'm probably wrong

@IndianDoraemon said in #3:
> Talking about girls,
> • money of the boy
> Talking about boys
> • hot girls; physical attraction, whatever you mean it
> Both are gold diggers in their own ways. As a boy if you have money, girls will chase you.
Get a life.

@dOnYa1386 said in #11:
> #9 my parents are wealthy okay?!
> And I'm not stupid enough to fall in love with someone I've never met.
> And they will never accept that I marry someone in the future who will bring down the family.
> So I have to marry a rich man.
> Education is also very important in our family, so this is an important criterion .....and many many things
I'm telling about SOME GIRLS. And you told that the boy and the girl fall in love without even knowing about them. Then how can they suddenly fall in love without knowing each other. I'm not telling about all girls. I'm telling about some girls. Why will some random boy and girl fall in love with each other suddenly? And I'm not telling anything about your parents, so why are you bringing them to the discussion?
And besides wealth, education, etc, some people also do consider race/caste of the boy. I'm just telling you what I know. I'm not trying to harass you or criticize girls. If you think I'm, then I'm sorry.

@FC-in-the-UK said in #14:
> Get a life.
Instead you consider to get a life!

@IndianDoraemon said in #3:
> Talking about girls,
> • money of the boy
That ain't true. I'm a boy, and i'm famous (best tennis player, music producer , graphic editor, and the the grade A dude) and no i don't have no girl.
Don't talk with pre-conceived notions. This is pure wrong, and will hurt girl's feelings.

These posts continue, and me along with several posters (the famous ones) are going to quit foruming. Please, refrain from writting such posts.

@SuperHarsheel said in #17:
> That ain't true. I'm a boy, and i'm famous (best tennis player, music producer , graphic editor, and the the grade A dude) and no i don't have no girl.
> Don't talk with pre-conceived notions. This is pure wrong, and will hurt girl's feelings.
>
> These posts continue, and me along with several posters (the famous ones) are going to quit foruming. Please, refrain from writting such posts.
So you think there is no gold digger? And if a girl suddenly meets you, don't you think she is attracted to you by your fame?
Yes this is NOT true for all girls. But as they suddenly met and fell in love, what do you think, how they got attracted? They didn't even knew each other earlier.

#1
It can happen, especially in TV serials.

@IndianDoraemon said in #16:
> Instead you consider to get a life!
kid, can u stop this nonsense? "hot girls" isn't life at all. one must try to find a girl/boy with a good heart. "Hotness" matters to you in this age, when you're quite immature, but it'll take time for you to realise. Personality matters much more than the look of your body. Be kind.