Hi friend! I'm a moderator of the Lichess 45+45 league. From memory, only about a third of our members are from North America. Many of the rest are from Europe. We also have plenty of folks from other parts of the world.
People almost always are able to schedule their games, even with opponents from the other side of the world. It's probably not as hard as you're thinking. I hope you'll join us.
@AOOP9_2 lichess4545 is a league where you join a team and play 1 45+45 game on lichess against a player of similar skill every week. We also have various umbrella leagues such as LoneWolf 30+30 which is an individual swiss tournament. Lonewolf has registration open right now, check it out at
lichess4545.com. The rules and FAQ documents at the website are very informative.
@RomanMauskopf I greatly enjoy playing long games online. I can wear my pajamas, eat snacks, play music, and other things that aren't convenient to do at OTB tournaments.