When you click play, games in play - it must be red text under each game, where your move : "in ... hours" or "in ... days"
But some games somehow don't show this, and you don't know that it is your move.
This game I lost on time
http://en.lichess.org/9gX9x2l3pc4V
Then I check every playing game, and few games I save in last moment, they was near lost on time too:
http://en.lichess.org/jqPf2CIQicDI
http://en.lichess.org/VxLP0ypUAAu2
http://en.lichess.org/LcPkMRgzfzpE
http://en.lichess.org/HuA7iQn1l3AJ
Not any of them had red text notification, and they was not counted in "games in play .... " number. All that games had 1 my move done, maybe this is problem.
But some games somehow don't show this, and you don't know that it is your move.
This game I lost on time
http://en.lichess.org/9gX9x2l3pc4V
Then I check every playing game, and few games I save in last moment, they was near lost on time too:
http://en.lichess.org/jqPf2CIQicDI
http://en.lichess.org/VxLP0ypUAAu2
http://en.lichess.org/LcPkMRgzfzpE
http://en.lichess.org/HuA7iQn1l3AJ
Not any of them had red text notification, and they was not counted in "games in play .... " number. All that games had 1 my move done, maybe this is problem.